Better Writing with Critiques and Feedback
Creative writing is not an easy pursuit. Like most skills that are worth mastering, it takes hard work, dedication, and attention to all the details of the craft.
Talent doesn’t hurt either.
The most committed writers constantly strive to produce better writing. Today’s poem has to be better than yesterday’s. Tomorrow’s short story must surpass today’s.
Writing daily is one way to improve your work. Proofreading is another surefire path to betterment. You should also collect writing resources and read regularly.
Another great way to grow as a writer is to get feedback from readers and from other writers. It’s one of the most difficult but valuable ways to achieve better writing.
The Lone Writer
Writing is often regarded as a solo activity. But most of us write for an audience. Once a piece of writing reaches its readers, it’s no longer a solo endeavor. It becomes interactive. It also becomes a prime target for scrutiny. That’s right, all the critics (and a whole bunch of people with big, huge opinions) will pull out their condemnation rifles and play target practice with your work.
Sure, you can wear a bulletproof vest, develop a thick skin, and let it all roll off your shoulder. However, that’s not going to do anything for book sales, blog subscriptions, or article submissions.
Do you think the Mars company just woke up one day and decided to add a bunch of new colors to the M&Ms bag? Nope. They did tests. They checked with a small pool of consumers to see how the new colors would be received and to make sure they tasted alright.
If all you do is write in your journal, this might not apply to you. You can eat your own candy and refuse to share it with the world. But if you want readers, real flesh and blood readers, to embrace your work, then you should get on with the taste tests. Immediately.
Don’t Hoard the Candy
First, you have to start showing your writing to other human beings. These human beings should not be your mother (yes, I know there are exceptions to the mother rule). Ideally, these people will be other writers and experienced readers. Don’t know any? Sign up for a creative writing class or join a writing group. Find a professional editor who offers critiques.
If you’re serious about your work, you’ll want to get opinions from people who understand the fine nuances of good writing before you wrap it up and send it off to publishers or agents.
A screenwriter once contacted me because he wanted his screenplay proofread. After going through the entire quoting process, he finally said something like, “Thanks, your prices are reasonable, but I’m just not comfortable letting anyone read this screenplay. I think it could be a blockbuster and I don’t want anyone to steal it.” I issued a polite and professional response, but what I was really thinking was, “Well if nobody sees the screenplay, then your screenplay will never see the big screen.”
Like I said, don’t hoard the candy, and if you’re paranoid about infringement and theft, register your work with the copyright office and get on with your writing life.
These Look Just Like Those Candies from the Movie E.T.
M&Ms look a lot like Reese’s Pieces but the similarities stop there. Likewise, a critique is different from proofreading. The purpose of proofreading is to fix mechanical errors with spelling, grammar, and punctuation. A critique should address strengths and weaknesses in a piece of writing.
Are the characters believable? Is the style consistent? Does the language compel? Is it clear and easy to understand? Does it flow smoothly? Are there holes in the plot? These are the questions that a comprehensive critique asks and answers. Sure, you can ask someone who’s giving a critique to keep an eye out for grammar mistakes, but don’t serve up a piece of writing that’s only half-baked.
Cookie Dough is Good but it’s Not Good for You
Raw cookie dough is pretty tasty. I know it puts a smile on my face. But it’s not wise to go around shoving raw material under everyone’s nose when you’re asking for a solid critique that will help you achieve better writing. Work hard on your piece and get it as polished as possible before you start asking people to take a bite.
When you’re asking someone to provide you with feedback, they’ll only be distracted if the piece is full of errors and grammatical mistakes. Remember that you’re asking them to take time out of their busy lives to do you a favor, so don’t waste that time by giving them work that is in the early draft stages. This conveys that either you want them to do the work for you or that you’re too lazy to clean up your piece before asking for feedback. Or, they’ll just assume you’re a crappy writer.
Also, the more errors there are in your piece, the more challenging it becomes to address bigger issues. If a reviewer is caught up on mistakes that you could have fixed yourself, he or she will be more likely to miss other, less noticeable mistakes and problems with your work.
So check and recheck your work, and put the cherry on top before you serve it to anyone (yes, even the taste testers).
Watch out for Do-gooders
Keep in mind that some people will only tell you what you want to hear. “Mmm, this is delicious,” is flattering but it’s not the feedback you’re looking for. Especially when they’re spitting out mouthfuls of the stuff behind your back. Look for people who can offer honest and straightforward critiques, people who are willing to tell you what works and what doesn’t.
This is why it’s generally not a good idea to ask your mother (and other loved ones) to be your critic. Mom probably thinks you’re the greatest (I know, I know, not all moms, but work with me here) so it’s unlikely she’ll tell you that your writing is broken. In fact, people like your mom may not even be able to see the flaws in your writing – they are blinded by love. So, find someone who can be objective (and yes, for a few writers out there, that will be Mom).
Give a Lick
Always be gracious. I’ve been asked to proofread, edit, and offer critiques to countless individuals in my life: family, friends, co-workers, and mere acquaintances. If I give someone honest feedback and they try to argue with me or throw it back in my face because they can’t handle it, I will never, ever give them the courtesy of a critique again.
Do not critique the critic, people. Take their advice and move on. If you asked for a critique, then it’s your job to suck it up and deal with it.
Instead of lashing out at your critic…
Relax, Digest, then Make Better Writing
A lot of people have a knee-jerk reaction when they receive a critique. You’ve worked hard on a piece, editing and rewriting until you felt it was shiny, sparkling, and ready for the market. Then, someone comes along and says “This needs some work.” You’ve already done the work. You were hoping for a rave review, but now this person is telling you that you’ve missed the mark. And this makes you feel like the mark (which you are of course).
After receiving a critique, give yourself time to absorb the feedback. Sometimes you just need to let it soak in overnight. Other times, it might take a few days before you’re cooled off and ready to revisit the project with a fresh perspective. Then, sit down and sift through the critique. Decide what advice you want to take and what you want to toss (that is your right as a writer). Edit, revise, repeat. Keep at it. If writing is truly your passion, let it become a lifelong pursuit and enjoy the journey of evolving as a writer. Just take your time and don’t give up.
Don’t Ever, Ever Give Up
If writing is your passion, then never give up on it. Write, polish, and ask for feedback. Read a lot. Proofread everything. Build a library of writing resources and collect writing tips. Write some more. Read again. Come up with a few new creative writing ideas. Write again. Keep going round and round.
And always strive to be the best writer you can possibly be.
Do you have any tips to share for better writing? Do you work with a writing group or have a reliable person who can give you offer constructive criticism? Has feedback helped you improve your writing? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments.
Editor’s Note: This article was originally published in June, 2008 but has been updated with new insight and updated information for your reading pleasure and writing benefit.
Melissa Donovan is a website designer and copywriter. She writes fiction and poetry and is the founder and editor of Writing Forward, a blog packed with creative writing tips and ideas.
Excellent points, one and all! Is it wrong that this entry made me hungry?
Seriously though, finding a group of fellow writers who would offer regular, insightful, and thorough feedback was both one of the hardest and best things I’ve ever done. In fact, I have two levels of feedback; one is my writing parter, another budding novelist with whom I’ve been meeting weekly for over three years. She gets the front-line stuff, the raw writing I’m still wrestling with. I let her see it because we’ve built up a high level of trust with one another, and I know she’ll have something enlightening to say. Then every two weeks, I meet with my 6-person critique group for a more formal review of the polished bits.
I don’t know where I’d be without such a fantastic support structure. Probably wouldn’t be writing at all.
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Oh gawd! Relating writing to candy and cookie dough?! My favorite things! I think I love you. No, I know I love you.
To this day, I think my mom is still my only fan.
Sweet post!
Guess what, I just made gluten-free cookie dough the other day — I got so sick!
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Yes, I’m getting a little hungry here, too….
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Melissa
I’m stuck in a bit of a pickle. My recreational writing is really suffering.
God knows I proof-read and edit, and write, write, write. This is pretty much what my job is 38 hours a week.
But it’s all the same dry, boring bureaucratic procedural documents at work. It’s about as exciting as revising a telephone book.
The problem is, when I get home, and I want to write the creative “Fun stuff”, my writing batteries are all used up for the day.
Often, it’s an effort to sit down and write even a small comment (like what I’m doing right now).
Not sure what the solution is. I try to excercise and refresh my brain with other outdoor interests. But sometimes I feel myself burning out.
The only fix I can think of right now is to change jobs. But I’m not ready to do something that drastic yet.
How do you handle it?
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@Jaden
Hey, I’m a fan!!
Friars last blog post..Random Bear Photo
@Bill, This post is designed to appeal to your sweet tooth
Sounds like you are lucky to have found both a partner and a group with whom you can share your writing. A support system like that is a fantastic asset for any writer!
@Jaden, Hello! I too am a fan! You know that, silly girl.
@Deb (Punctuality), That’s a good sign
@Friar, Honestly, I am still learning how to balance things. Occasionally, I get super burnt out and think I cannot possibly spend another minute in front of the computer, let alone writing. It takes practice and time to build up stamina, I think.
However, it is difficult to juggle the professional writing with the creative. I don’t spend 38 hours on the business writing (billable writing hours are more like 25-30/week) but I imagine if I did, it would sort of zap some of my creativity.
As for switching jobs, I guess that depends on how much you like your current job and how serious you are about writing. That might be the answer but only you know if it’s the right move for you.
By the way, Friar, I sent you an email yesterday about comments on your blog. Just FYI.
Melissa,
Good post and hit me on a sore spot. after working for the brutal and insensitive red pen man, I have stopped asking for people’s opinions about my work and I didn’t even realize it until this post.
Thank you. Normally I would say I take feedback well, but he was like being ran over by a truck.Enough time has passed, I think I just hadn’t thought about it. This is good.
Friar, when I was working in Corporate Communications as a full time writer, I barely came home and wrote in my journal, something I have done since I was a teen. It really took all the fun out of my art. Toward the end, I found that I could get it back, but I had to remember to seperate the two things…as two entirely different skill sets.Kind of hard to explain in a comment section.- using different sides of the brain I guess, was what made it different. When I realized that, I could geet it back.
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Friar & Melissa — Thanks. Getting teary-eyed here.
Friar — Sounds like the job is just tiring you out. Can you negotiate for a 4-day work week or some kind of reduction to allow you creative breathing space?
I try to do busy-work jobs that allow my brain to wander, so when I get back to my personal writing time, I have lots of new ideas for my own use. I try to avoid creative jobs that require 40-60 hours week that zap me of energy and inspiration.
The writing on your blog does not reveal this struggle or fatigue. Your writing is honest, open, personal, funny, and unique!
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Thank you for this post. I’ve thought about taking a creative writing class for this very purpose. I’m sure that it would be valuable to pay for a professional critique once something is as polished as you can get it on your own, but it would also be nice to have a few writer friends for more regular support. Bill’s situation sounds ideal.
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@Melissa
I saw your email. I dunno why your comments didnt’ get through..everyone else’s did. Usually if it’s SPAM wordpress still shows me the comment, and allows me to delete it. But I havent’ seen any of yours.
@Jaden and Wendi
Thanks for the pointers, and the tips. If my writing gets more serious, I might have to consider changing my work hours (though they might not like this at the Widget Factory..we’re already under-staffed).
I like the stuff I’m writing right now, but if I had a bit more time to focus, and less burntout, I know I’d be able to do ever better!
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Your “be gracious” advice struck a chord with me. I’ve written and edited nonfiction for a living since 1983, so I’ve done plenty of free fiction and nonfiction edits or critiques for friends and acquaintances — everything from short stories to books. I love the fact that I’ve got something to offer, and I don’t mind the extra work for people who appreciate my time investment — whether they do or do not agree with my advice. The ones who find me “too busy” in the future are those who just want to argue rather than have a productive discussion about differences in opinion. I’m all about saying, “Hey, here’s my opinion for what it’s worth, since you asked; take it or leave it; I hope it’s helpful in some way.” But some people just want to be petted.
For that reason, I’d also add to your advice, “Be specific in what you’re asking your test readers to do.” Here’s an example: There’s one blog that puts out decent fiction, and several months ago the author asked, “Here’s my writing. What do you think?” I praised the work on her short story and mentioned a plot point that didn’t work for me, along with an explanation why and some suggested alternatives if she decided to make any changes. I’m pretty good at wording suggestions as just that, too. Well! You’d have thought I called her children loathsome abominations, based on the lengthy and public dressing down she posted in response. What she should have said in her initial post was, “Here’s my story. Praise me.” Or perhaps, “I just wrote this and I’m ultra-sensitive about any feedback. Please just tell me what you DO like about it.” Because that’s what she really wanted. She not only lost a critique partner that day, she lost a reader; I unsubscribed. Who needs hostile defensiveness?
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Melissa,
Excellent points. I used to belong to a writer’s group and one of my biggest pet peeves was that people would come to group with rough drafts. I think the group leader should have empasized polished prose. But that’s in the past, and that’s how you learn.
@Friar – Creative writing isn’t always fun. You just have to show up at the page. But I understand your feelings regarding the 150 page documents you are called on to edit and insert “shalls.”
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@Wendi, This red pen man sounds pretty vicious
Sounds like you may have learned a lot even if it was harsh.
@Greer, I highly recommend taking a creative writing class, either a general class or a specialized one (poetry, fiction, etc.). That is where I gained some of my most valuable writing experiences, including feedback. Plus, it’s just fun
@Friar, I will look into why all the blogs are eating my comments. It’s really starting to annoy me. Grrr. My own blog isn’t eating my comments, so I guess I should be thankful for that! Heheh.
@Carolyn, I’ve had similar experiences with people who ask for critiques. Even with proofreading, some folks get bent out of shape if they see too much red on the page, but a grammar mistake is a grammar mistake. Most people are good about it though and I find that the complainers are few and far between.
And yes, it is good to ask a reviewer for feedback on specific aspects of a piece. That is a good suggestion, especially for more advanced writers.
@Ellen, Yes, it’s also kind of rude to ask for feedback on something that isn’t polished (for reasons already mentioned in the post). Maybe not polished to the absolute best of your ability, but it should be pretty well developed by the time you start showing it around.
@Carolyn – I just get the biggest kick out of that, “some people just want to be petted.” Ha! I think that is the first stage of writing people go through. Your skin isn’t very thick and you need a little ego boost. Then, just wait until you send your stuff out to agents. They don’t mess around with “nice.” What is it? Only 2% make the cut. Grim stats, but it makes you want to glean that cutting edge if you want to get published.
@Melissa – Exactly. You have to know what your are capable of and then push yourself. Then, let someone look with fresh eyes. We can’t see our problems like other people can. We get too attached to our work.
As you can tell I can sit around and talk about fiction all day long.
Have a good night!
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Oh, and, happy birthday!
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY MELISSA!!
Now get back to work.
(Teehee… I’ll bet you are working right now.)
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Thanks ladies! My birthday was fun and relaxing (nope, I didn’t work at all this weekend!) Hope you are all enjoying the weekend too!
-Melissa
Test readers are an absolute lifesaver– when you can count on them to actually go through with their offers and vows that they’ll have the book done with by the end of the week.
The next best thing, before the book is finished, is to find a friend who will let you explain what isn’t working in the story. Half of the time just talking about the problem (and identifying it) is gold, and the rest of the time they can bring up pretty valid points.
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Eliza, I could’t agree more. I’ve never written a book so the most I’ve asked people to read is a few pages. I would probably give readers a month or so to get back on a book (unless they were being paid!). I am wondering if a week isn’t long enough to read a book, go through and comment/critique. Depends on how busy they already are, I guess. I’m just impressed you’ve finished a whole book (or more than one?) That’s pretty cool!
Heh. I write fantasy, and the guys I know who follow the genre tend to get through novels in one or two days. They’re the ones claiming a week or so, and they’re crazy and sleep-deprived.
I’m working on book number six.
I’ve already written it once and have gotten through over half of the first rewrite; I figure that I’ll start submitting it after a few more drafts. 
Thanks!
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Ha, Melissa, you’re such a hoot! These are great points! I think you’ve been hungry a lot lately, but these food-related posts are fantabulous!
Oh, and I’m trying to beat the Google Alert. I gave you a little link love today. It’s to your post about launching your freelance career.
Hope your week has started off well!
*smiles*
Michele
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Um, I missed your birthday? How’d that happen? Where have I been?
*hangs head*
Happy (Belated) Birthday, Melissa!
*smiles*
Michele
Just wanted to add my good wishes, Happy Happy Birthday!
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Happy birthday. Eating cake for you!
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@Eliza, Book number six? Wow, that’s quite an accomplishment! I will refrain from turning green with envy
Yes, it’s not hard to get through a book in a day or two (for voracious readers) but putting together the critique can take awhile. Especially if the reader gets sidetracked reading yet another book, then another…
@Michele, Thanks for the linky love! I like it a lot! Don’t hang your head for belated birthday wishes silly girl. Better late than never, right?
@Greer, Thank you so much
@Wendi, And thank you too! I’m still working on my own cake, which is a delicious lemon cake. So good. ::: smacks lips :::
You’re most welcome, Melissa! I’m so honored that you liked it! Ah, I feel much better now! Glad you had a good birthday.
*smiles*
Michele
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Wow… what a great post! Critiques are definitely necessary in writing, and of course, not just any feedback but real honest critiques which aren’t afraid to tell you what’s wrong with your work. I personally would never ask feedback from a friend who is not a writer, for the reasons you mentioned.
Whenever I get an honest critique that tells me I have work to do, I try to co-operate and thank them for the feedback, and improve my writing on its basis. And thing is… I do see positive results. So critiques are definitely valuable for any writer, however expert he/she may be. If experts don’t need critiques (as some people say), then how come a writer like J.K. Rowling has an editor?
Thanks for the great information, Melissa. Very useful and helpful for any writer, this.
It’s really not that hard to accept a critique as long as you don’t get all hung up on your own ego. A writer should always remember: you don’t have to take the critic’s advice. It’s all optional and much of a critique may be opinion and personal preference. I never felt insecure about my writing so critiques never bothered me; I guess I’m lucky in that sense. Every writer could use an editor
I know I wouldn’t mind.
I have my mom proofread a lot of what I write. I asked her a couple times to critique things, but like you said, moms will always say what you did was awesome and will always be your #1 fan.
However, I find myself like Friar was describing in his comments, being drained by the time I get out of work and not really wanting to work on anything creative. I don’t even get to read the blogs I enjoy so much anymore, but when I can the chance, I do. Sometimes writing in my own blog feels like a burden, which it shouldn’t because I enjoy doing it, but I don’t like having a bunch of days pass without posting anything new. Even if it’s just a movie review.
Even with all that busy-ness, I see what you mean about reading all the time. I managed to at least start a few books here and there and it only feeds the writer in me. I admit, I thought I could cheat and get away with watching movies or well scripted entertainment, but there’s nothing quite like a book. My only problem now is FINISHING a book. I’m about 20-50 pages in about 6 books.
Lastly, I have a few friends that have asked me to critique their writing, and I told them I’d be glad to. I feel bad because I have yet to read a single word. But they also know I can get pretty busy.
Sometimes when you commit yourself to a hobby, it starts to feel like work. For example, if you love writing and launch a blog, eventually the commitment makes it feel like a job. I know I’ve experienced it a few times. The trick, I think, is to work through the periods of time when it feels like work. Usually, it’s just a bump in the road and when you push yourself over it, the thing becomes fun again. Sometimes scaling back on the commitment can help. If you were blogging three times a week, bring it down to once a week for awhile and see if you don’t get your drive back. Experiment and see what works.
I think I may try that. I think also what I was trying to practice working on a deadline, especially with my Friday posts. I wanted to be consistent with content and sometimes if I’m rushing it, it won’t come out as good as something I took my time with and enjoyed writing about… like my LOST reflections (wink wink). I actually do have a deadline with my job’s newsletter, but they are usually only looking for a movie review. But I would rather take my time, proofread and edit as needed versus write it in the nick of time. However, I have 24 hours to write about my experience in Niagara Falls, but the version I send to them will be abridged compared to what will eventually make it on my blog.
For me, writing is an extremely painful process. It takes a long time and I have to go through many revisions and approvals. I think you’ve listed some great points, but I would also caution that writing is never done, it’s simply abandoned at some point. In other words, you can always keep making improvements, but at some point and time you have to meet your deadline.
That’s the truth! If you hold onto a piece long enough, you’ll always find more revisions. And more, and more, and more. At some point, you just have to let it go.